
Men's Health Month spotlight: Luke Kievenaar
Breaking stigmas and embracing strength through vulnerability.
02 December 2024
51ĀŅĀ×
Luke Kievenaar is a Partner and the Head of Property Management within the Investment Lettings and Management team at 51ĀŅĀ×. Over his eight-year tenure, Luke has been a champion of resilience, openness, and progress not just professionally but also in his personal health journey.
Living with Colitis: finding light after the struggle
For as long as he can remember, Luke has lived with the challenges of Ulcerative Colitis, a condition that left him in constant pain and feeling as though he was perpetually jet-lagged. After years of ineffective treatments, from tablets to infusions, he made a life-changing decision two years ago to have a stoma implanted, affectionately nicknamed āBilbo Baggins.ā
This pivotal moment brought significant relief, addressing many of his physical symptoms and allowing him to focus on improving other aspects of his health. āThe stoma fixed 70% of the issues,ā Luke explains, ābut it also highlighted that I had been setting aside my mental health for far too long.ā
Understanding neurodiversity: An ADHD diagnosis
Encouraged by his wife, Luke recently sought clarity on long-standing attention challenges and was diagnosed with ADHD. While this came as a surprise, the diagnosis provided validation for traits he had previously chalked up to quirks of his personality.
āMasking my ADHD for so long was exhausting,ā he reflects. āNow Iāve found strategies to work with it, and I see the positives ā neurodiverse individuals can offer unique perspectives and think outside the box.ā
Luke believes that embracing neurodiversity in the workplace can unlock creativity and innovation. ā51ĀŅĀ× has an opportunity to support everyone fully, which not only benefits the individual but strengthens the firm as a whole.ā
Balancing health, family and work
Family has been a cornerstone of Lukeās journey, with his wife providing unwavering support. Equally important has been the flexibility offered by his managers, allowing him to manage his health without compromising his professional commitments.
āI used to overthink and worry about letting my team down,ā he admits. āBut Iāve learned that small adjustments, like being open with your team and not putting unnecessary pressure on yourself, can make all the difference.ā
Redefining masculinity: Encouraging men to speak up
As someone from a generation where men often āsilently get on with things,ā Luke understands the stigma around discussing health challenges. But he firmly disagrees with the notion that speaking up is a sign of weakness.
āTalking about health ā physical and mental ā opens doors to empathy, understanding, and solutions. It reduces stigma and encourages others to do the same.ā
Luke also highlights the critical role men play in driving meaningful change within the workplace. āStop the narrative that āDEI doesnāt involve me.ā Men hold many of the senior positions at 51ĀŅĀ×, they have the power to ask the right questions and prioritise inclusion.ā
Walking the walk: Supporting others
As Co-Chair of 51ĀŅĀ×ās Ability Employee Resource Group (ERG), Luke is committed to fostering a more inclusive environment. He is particularly proud of initiatives like the rollout of the Disability Sunflower scheme and the firmās Disability Confident Level 2 certification, but recognises there is more to be done.
āSmall changes can have a big impact. I want to help others get to the point where they feel empowered and understood, just as I have.ā
Practical advice for colleagues
Lukeās advice to anyone facing challenges ā whether physical, mental, or neurodiverse ā is to take small, manageable steps. āFind a neutral person to talk to, whether thatās a therapist, a member of an ERG, or a colleague. Donāt be afraid to explore the resources available, like 51ĀŅĀ×ās wellbeing initiatives, BUPA support, or HR teams.ā
Looking ahead
Lukeās journey is a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the power of open conversations. Through his leadership at 51ĀŅĀ× and within the Ability ERG, he hopes to continue breaking down barriers and fostering a workplace where everyone feels they can thrive.
āUltimately, when we create environments that allow people to be themselves, we all win.ā